The dying tree by Sr Sharon Gail
WE stood in a circle around a huge tree in the front
of our garden. I was about 12 and the whole family
was praying for a beautiful tree that seemed to be
dying. I had another prayer in mind. "The tree
doesn't matter. Please help my dad. He's the one who
needs your help."
I was one of five children. Dad had periods when
life was exciting - he was active and would splurge
out on fizzy drinks and ice cream for everybody. He
would take us on outings to see the local waterfalls
and pick mushrooms growing in the fields out of
town. Mom wanted nothing to do with these dangerous
activities.
Then would come the days on end when he just sat at
the supper table with nothing to say, looking down
at his food. I knew he wasn't well. These were the
typical ups and downs of Bipolar Mood Disorder. We
didn't know that then, but 6 years later, Dad was
diagnosed and started treatment. He went on to teach
for 15 more years before retiring.
Bipolar disorder can start in the teens, and there
are many different kinds. The moods are extreme. The
highs typically involve being excessively talkative,
productive and creative, needing very little sleep
and having an active and perceptive mind. However,
some projects get started and never finished.
Arguments may erupt due to confrontations. There may
be alcohol abuse.
The lows are sad. There is low self-esteem, with
very little motivation. The future looks bleak.
There is no enjoyment in the usual pleasures. Sadly,
some even attempt suicide.
Those with Bipolar disorder need help. They need
medication for life. This is offered at the Mental
Health Clinics/via Medical Aid. People with Bipolar
disorder can lead a normal life. If you think you
could have Bipolar:
Keep a mood diary, recording
the highs and the lows
Get help to stop alcohol and
drugs
Call SADAG (SA Depression & Anxiety Group) on
011 783 1474 They offer advice and information.
See
your local Mental Health Clinic/ Clinical
Psychologist By the way, the tree recovered and
thrived!
